“As a psychotherapist, I believed
many of the answers to my life struggles would be found
in years of therapy, yet no one has been able to enlighten
me as Carol has. I owe my marriage and my family to
S.A.E., Psychologist, Chino, CA
“I first talked to Carol in June of 2002. My husband had just announced that he
no longer wanted to be married. I was devastated. Carol directed me to new ways of relating to my husband.
Because of her I was able to identify what was going wrong in the marriage instead of just watching it crash.
Carol’s advice changed the dynamics of my marriage. Now at the end of April of 2005, my husband wants to get
remarried. We are closer than we have been in years. Carol is a Godsend.”Z
E.S., Teacher, Ventura, CA
“Carol is a natural. Her instinctual ability to get to the ‘heart’
of the matter in relationships and to get her clients to come along with her, at their pace, is matched by her warmth,
intellect, and humanity. She is a treasure.”
S.P.H., M.D. Clinical Associate Professor of Psychiatry, Cornell University
"I just got home and wanted to share my thoughts with you. First of all,
I am one of those people who looked for excuses not to come all day today. What got me there was my not wanting to let
you down and me wanting to keep my committment. So I made it.
I'm not one for 'group' therapy, or sharing experiences with strangers. About 15
minutes into it I was already writing (in my head) my email to you about why I didn't think the workshop was for me.
And when one of the women shared she got really emotional about her story and I really felt uncomfortable.
Then something magical happened. I became open. I realized there was a lot to be
learned from the other women. I felt compassion towards the other women. You enlightened me in a profound way. I
am soooooooooooooooooo glad I came tonight. So, thank you! You were awesome. You were articulate. You were funny. You
made me want to come back for more!"
L.A., Real Estate Agent, Pasadena, CA
"Over the years Carol Allen has helped me become the best me that I can
be. Her sense of humor, intelligence and sensitivity have guided me through many life perils (relationships and otherwise)! Her
newest workshop is the evolution of all her years of study and packs in the best versions of single girl 'rules,' married
ladies 'bringing the romance back' as well as successful techniques for communicating with EVERYONE in your life,
not just your significant other. I approach every relationship now with the a different vision. I know that in my heart
I want the best for both of us and every day it is now a pleasure (and not such hard work) to make that a possibility."
D.B., Fashion Executive, Los Angeles, CA
"At first, I complained, cried, got angry and re-told my story on how horrible
my husband was. I had the 'could you believe him!' conversation probably 20 times with 20 of my friends and
family...all of which said that I would be better off without him. But, at the end of the day, I loved him
and it only made me feel worse that I was starting to feel such resentment towards a man I once adored.
I had nearly lost all hope when I went to see Carol. Carol listened to me
as I told her my ordeal. She agreed that he was being a jerk and comforted me but then did something
different...she helped me understand HIM and HIS side. When she spoke about his side, it was as if she KNEW him. She
gave me tips on how to better 'manage' my husband and coached me through it. It was as if she put together
a 'Dummies Manual' on MY HUSBAND. She was always available to help me get through tough moments, my slip
ups and assured me that if I trusted her, things would work out!
After six weeks of 'training,' my husband moved back into our home and our
relationship has never been better. When and if we do argue, our 'fights' last 5-15 minutes instead of
5-15 days. We adore each other and I’ve never felt more secure in our love for one another. Carol
helped me 'reel in' my husband by teaching me to let my husband be the handsome, manly man that he is. She
taught me that I could be a strong, smart alpha female without having to lose my fantastic femininity.
Carol truly has taught me the tools to ensure that our relationship will be one
filled with love and respect. I would never consider her my therapist, relationship coach or astrologer, but my friend.
I have her to thank for the happiness that I am currently experiencing with my husband and owe her a million thanks
for her warmth, guidance and support."
I.M., Casting Director, Valencia, CA
"Carol’s insight into relationships is eye-opening and ground-breaking.
Positive relationship role models were scarce in my upbringing.
Before Carol, the only relationship advice that I was given
was that once I marry, I should keep a secret bank account.
Obviously, I was lacking in any real knowledge about how
to function in successful, loving relationships. So,
I jumped at the chance to participate in Carol’s relationship
workshop. I knew there was so much more to learn beyond
'He’s Just Not THAT Into You.'
Boy did Carol deliver!
She created a fun and safe space to share her research
to a group of women—single, divorced, married and
everywhere in between. These past eight weeks have been
among the most transformational in my life. Her
eye-opening information and warm, honest and diplomatic
style helped me pave new pathways for my behaviors and belief
systems. Among the most significant changes is that I’ve
stopped worrying about everyone else and shifted my focus
to taking care of myself. Consequently, my personal
and family relationships have dramatically improved. I am
shocked at how so many people are showing up for me—meeting
me way more than half-way! I am truly grateful for being
part of an amazing group of women, learning from Carol and
from each other. Hooray for Carol!"
P.H, Fashion Designer, Santa Monica, CA